I can’t stand it. Especially if I know I’m wrong, and I said sorry. That just pisses me off so much. You know, every day is a new day, lighten up! I just wish people could forgive and forget. Maybe not forget, but at least forgive. It’s them having the courage to apologize and realize what they did wrong, and you have the courage to accept what they did wrong. The true spirit of Christ in us is forgiving those who offended us. These are test put in our past to help us over come whats next. Anyways, grudges don’t ever solve problems. People hold grudges when someone has hurt them, thinking the grudge will somehow hurt the other person. A form of punishment, much? Just open up, forgive, and move on.